Fresh Air, Fewer Arguments: Making the Most of Family Time Outside This Summer
Ah, the summer holidays. Six long weeks of children repeatedly saying “I’m hungry”, gingerly stepping across the front room between hundreds of Lego bricks and Hot Wheels cars, and the low-level stress of trying to “make memories” without making your bank account cry. Sound familiar?
If you’re anything like me, you want your children to have a brilliant summer – full of those magical moments they’ll look back on fondly – but you also want to keep your job, keep your bank account in the black, and most importantly, keep your sanity! And that’s where getting outside comes in.
It doesn’t have to be complicated. It doesn’t have to be every single day. It doesn’t need to cost the earth. And no, you don’t need to create a Pinterest-perfect itinerary with laminated trail cards and wildflower bingo (unless that’s your thing – in which case, I salute you!).
Why Outside Time Works Like Magic
Here’s the thing. Getting outdoors isn’t just good for burning off energy (although yes, it definitely helps when everyone’s bouncing off the walls by 9am). There’s science-backed evidence that outdoor time improves:
- Mental health – Fresh air, greenery, and sunlight are linked to reduced stress, anxiety, and depression in both adults and children. Even 20 minutes in a park can lower cortisol levels.
- Physical health – Obvious one, but yes: running, climbing, biking, balancing, building forts, even paddling in a stream — they all help with strength, coordination, and cardiovascular health.
- Sleep quality – Getting sunlight early in the day helps regulate melatonin, which means better sleep for everyone. And let’s be honest — good sleep can change the entire tone of a household.
- Emotional connection – Away from screens and house chores, outdoor time opens space for real conversations, shared problem solving, and all those funny moments you can’t manufacture.
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Let’s Talk About the Social & Emotional Bit
We always talk about “quality time” – but in practice, it’s hard to carve out when you’re juggling work, packed lunches, laundry mountains, and arguments over who touched whose chair at dinner.
Outdoor time gives you a shortcut to that connection. No eye contact pressure. Just side-by-side walking, riding, building dens, or watching the clouds. It naturally makes space for the kind of chats where children open up about school, worries, random ideas, and sometimes nothing at all – and that’s okay too.
For siblings, it can help build teamwork (yes, even if there’s some bickering en route), and for us grown-ups, it helps us feel more like the parents we want to be. Present. Energised. Less shouty. (Mostly…)
Ideas That Don’t Cost a Penny (and Still Count as Quality Time)
Getting outdoors doesn’t need to be a big adventure in itself. It can be as simple as popping on your trainers and having a walk around the block on your lunch – like we did over Half Term. Alternatively, here are some other ideas you might want to try:
Scavenger hunt walk (see Scavenger Hunt Ideas)
Puddle splashing or river paddling — even teenagers get drawn into this with the right mood!
Simple picnic in the local woods or park — Bonus points for a Frisbee or cards.
Bike rides along canal paths or forest trails — We loved our ride at Cannock Chase
Evening walks with torches — everything feels more exciting after bedtime
Climb a local hill for sunset — snack at the top = always a win.
Looking for more ideas? Check out our other free or cheap outdoor ideas here!

Make It Easy on Yourself
You don’t have to go full Bear Grylls. Some days, a walk to the local duck pond and a bag of crisps is plenty. Here are a few things that help us keep it chilled:
Let the children lead sometimes – whether that’s choosing the route or setting the pace
A go-bag with sunscreen, plasters, snacks, a football, and a picnic rug
Set your expectations low – if everyone survives with minimal whining, it’s a win
Take photos… but not too many – be in the moment too
The Summer You’ll Remember
The truth is, your children won’t remember the summer that was perfectly planned, or even have a clue about how much you might have spent. But, they’ll remember the picnic where a wasp made Dad do that funny dance, the time you all got lost but found a rope swing, or helping to change an inner tube together when someone got a puncture.
They’ll remember you, being there.
So let’s make the most of the sun (or the warm-ish drizzle), dust off the walking boots, and remind ourselves that outdoor adventures don’t have to be big to be meaningful.
See you out there 👣

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Yes, mini adventure matters, especially for mental health. Thanks for the tip, EJ. Your photos are great!
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They really do! Even if it’s just 20 minutes in the garden, or a quick walk around the block 🙂 Thanks Hazel!
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My pleasure, EJ. Enjoy the rest of your day!
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I remember when mine were younger, we did the geocaching thing alongside National Trust to keep things regular and more affordable. But we were lucky that my parents wanted to take the family away to the Lakes. As a result my two got to play with their cousins for a week every summer, in a superb landscape, we did family walks that they still say are the best days they’ve had out and games of hide and seek around the house/garden we stayed in, that lasted for hours. If you can hook on to something that you do every year then that becomes the forever memory for the kids, my two at 18 and 16 still ask when are we going away with the cousins
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I really do need to look more into what national trust stuff we have near us and see if a membership would work without too much travelling. We’ve joined the forestry England one and so far that’s working out well for us. We’re also lucky in a similar way, my parents live in Scotland and we visit for a week every summer, in a lovely rural location and not too far from the beach. Like your children, mine look forward to this every summer and this our ‘holiday’. Hopefully they, too, will look back fondly on these annual weeks of fun 😊
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Such great advice. We just took our son camping for the first time this weekend (he’s 5) and he loved the thrill of living outdoors for the night!
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Thank you! Children just LOVE camping, it’s fun and something different too. Now you’ve tried it (and dried out the tent 😅) will you go again?
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Absolutely! Going again in a couple of weekends time!
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Ahh brilliant, look forward to the post!! 😀
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We’ve always tried really hard to do stuff together as a family and it’s paid off not only in the great times we’ve had together but the fact we still enjoy each others company when my kids are both well into their 20’s. I was always hopeful that they wouldn’t just head off into the sunset at 18!
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That’s music to my ears hearing this! I feel hopeful that we can be the same, it’s so lovely to have such a close family even once they fly the nest. You did great! 😍
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